> I am just a normal mapper 

No, you're not.  "normal mappers" don't draw the ire of their local community by just ignoring what everyone else has to say.  Normal mappers don't write diary entries targeting their "haters" like yours.  Normal mappers don't collect a host of block messages like https://www.openstreetmap.org/user/slice0/blocks .

If you aren't able to compromise I'm afraid that this may not be the project for you, and perhaps you should refer to the matter of "Arkell vs Pressdram".  However if you do want to continue contributing please do start making your case for this changeset in the forum and - most importantly - listening for what other people have to say.
