Did you follow the import guidelines https://wiki.openstreetmap.org/wiki/Import/Guidelines by discussing with the community first and documenting your import plan? That should happen before doing an import, so these kinds of issues can be discussed before hand where it's easier to change.

I haven't gone through everything but things like https://www.openstreetmap.org/way/403559117 should usually be ref=15 not name=15.

Agreed it should only be on objects where they may be referenced by that number, eg. picnic sites, BBQs etc.